Usually in some form or fashion we get this question from friends, family or total strangers. The "you only have one child" question. Or "when are you having another child" question. Now that Emily is 7 years old the question is less frequent. Most people mean no ill by asking but some people have such a stereotype about only children. I must have missed the parenting handbook that stated you must have two or more children. Just as I try not to be judgemental about families that have five or six children, I ask that people respect our choice to have one child. Both options have great and not-so-great qualities about them.
Well last night Emily asked me 'the question'. Here's how it played out:
Emily: 'Mom, why don't I have a sister? I want a sister'
Me: 'Well if we had another baby it might be a brother'
Emily: 'Oh....hmmmm...and you would have to get another room'
Me: 'No, you would have to share your room. And you know babies cry alot'
Emily: 'Oh....well that would not be good for me'
End of story.